WHAT
TO EXPECT:
• Shock
of diagnosis of a life-threatening disease
•
Confusion
with choices of surgery and treatment
•
Concerns
about self-image due to surgery and treatment
•
Worry
about reactions of friends and family members
•
Fear
and uncertainty about the future
DO:
•
Listen
•
Offer
specific help with household chores, meals, transportation, child
care, etc.
•
Take
cues from the person
•
Let
feelings be expressed
•
Expect
mood changes
•
Be
there
DON'T:
•
Tell
the person what to do
•
Avoid
the person
•
Share
horror stories
•
Be
afraid of the person's sadness ... it's normal.
